LastConnectRecording the memorial service you would like
A few preferences can help loved ones understand your wishes.
Choose the kind of gathering
You might prefer a religious funeral, a quiet memorial, a celebration of life or no formal gathering. Describe what matters to you without feeling you must decide every detail.
Add personal touches
Record any music, readings, photographs or traditions you would like. Name people you would like informed, and explain any preferences for flowers or charitable donations.
Leave room for practical changes
Discuss location, budget and accessibility. Some wishes may depend on local rules or what is available. Mark which preferences are important and which are flexible.
Make the plan easy to find
Tell a trusted person where your instructions are kept. Review them when your preferences or circumstances change. Recording wishes does not require you to buy a funeral package.