A simple funeral planning checklist

Start with wishes and practical needs

Look for any recorded wishes or existing arrangements. Ask a local professional which documents, permissions and arrangements are needed. Timing depends on local requirements, beliefs and availability.

Choose what matters

Decide on burial or cremation, a service location and a budget. Ask for a written breakdown of costs and clarify what is required and what is optional.

Personalise the gathering

Choose readings, music, photographs or flowers if wanted. Decide who will lead the service and speak. A small gathering can be meaningful; you do not have to include every possible extra.

Share the work

Make a short task list with a responsible person and due date for each item. Confirm dates before notifying guests. Include accessibility, transport and any refreshments in the plan.